the thing is, however, that both are true.
(via late-sunshine)Source: kateoplis
I think I need to reinvent my blog. I definitely want to get into posting more Political Stuff. But perhaps I shall wait until after I graduate from college before I start this project. I know I will have a lot more time to devote to political works and projects this summer….yeah I think that is what I will do. So stay tuned for future Political stuff coming this summer!
Really? You’re really going to treat her like that? She let you into her life again after all the shit you pulled, and you do THIS? And I bet you think that since I am your “bro” that I am going to condone this sort of shit. Well here is some news for you: She is a friend of mine now as well, because that is what happens when you are in a relationship, that person becomes integrated into your group of friends. So don’t think that you hurting her like this is going to be ok with me because I don’t put up with cheating.
Now I get that there is blame to go around for everyone. I mean yes, she let you back into her life when you came home even knowing what you had done back in California. So yeah, she is to blame for not being more careful. But that blame can only go so far. After all we are told that we should forgive people and she has done that time and again without any preconditions for you to follow.
Now I don’t know if there is just something deep inside you that isn’t ready to commit, I don’t know if there is something wrong based on what happened back in the Marines, but whatever it is you need to figure it out. You need to ask yourself this question: What do you want? Do you want a committed relationship with an amazing woman? or do you want a bunch of one night stands, with questionable women in bad circumstances? Either way, we won’t judge you for those decisions, after all we are your friends. Whatever you do is your choice but we don’t want you to be a tool about it. We want you to do right by her, we want you to treat her with respect and give her the truth so that she can also move on. It isn’t fair to either of you to keep this charade up.